Old, but worth repeating again since it's a great piece of advice (spooged from A VC Blog):

"Walking away from a deal is one of the hardest things to do"

Some other advice here. Even more here, and to answer her question, yes it's always about wanting what you can't have, whether you're a guy or a girl.

Another blast from the past, More Than Words, fitting don't ya think...
To get us ready for another night at Irish singing some more of the classics :-)

Extreme - More Than Words

Saying I love you
Is not the words I want to hear from you
It’s not that I want you
Not to say, but if you only knew
How easy it would be to show me how you feel
More than words is all you have to do to make it real
Then you wouldn’t have to say that you love me
Cos I’d already know

What would you do if my heart was torn in two
More than words to show you feel
That your love for me is real
What would you say if I took those words away
Then you couldn’t make things new
Just by saying I love you

More than words

Now I’ve tried to talk to you and make you understand
All you have to do is close your eyes
And just reach out your hands and touch me
Hold me close don’t ever let me go
More than words is all I ever needed you to show
Then you wouldn’t have to say that you love me
Cos I’d already know

What would you do if my heart was torn in two
More than words to show you feel
That your love for me is real
What would you say if I took those words away
Then you couldn’t make things new
Just by saying I love you

More than words